Our subject today is rejection, that insidious killer of big dreams. All of us who have had any degree of success have no doubt had people tell us that our ideas were too different, too radical, too “out of the box,” too whatever! This is true if you are a business owner, marketer, salesperson, product manager or in virtually any other occupation. But lest you take such rejection too personally, I want you to know that you will be in very good company. No less a figure than Albert Einstein received a harsh rejection letter from the University of Bern when he applied to join the doctorate program.
I was as astonished as you probably are upon first reading this astonishing letter, which states that the Theory of Relativity is radical and artistic, and not actual physics. So why should your (probably) less-impactful ideas be taken any more seriously than Einstein’s?
Here are some of the other things you will hear if you take a stand and want to do something that is outside the norm:
That will never work.
That’s not the way we do it here.
We tried that already.
That idea is too radical.
The research doesn’t back you up.
We can’t take a chance on your idea.
As B2B marketers we face rejection on a fairly regular basis. Seldom does the CEO or CSO jump up and shout, “That’s the greatest idea I ever heard!” when we propose new branding, new offers, a new sales model, etc. Let’s face it; there are some people in the executive suite who would find a way to criticize sunshine.
I once worked for a tech CEO who would have tried to re-write Lincoln’s Gettysburg address. He seemed to thrive on knocking down anyone else’s ideas. I’ve also worked for great CEOs who are open-minded and let you test out-of-the-box ideas – and these have sometimes proven transformative, both to our marketing efforts and the company as a whole.
The point is, if you back off from your convictions and shy away from rejection, you will probably not accomplish very much, and this will not benefit you or your company. Better to keep in mind the words of Bo Bennett: “A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success.”
Lest you think that Albert Einstein was an isolated example, how about the likes of Walt Disney, Oprah, Robert Redford, Stephen King, Michael Jordan and Bill Gates. Yes, the richest man in the world had a business failure after dropping out of Harvard when a company he founded called Traf-O-Data failed. Good thing Gates and the others didn’t let a little rejection stop them. Many other examples of famous rejections are listed in this article. As you and I take actions that cause us to face rejection on any scale, we should be pleased because we are joining very good company.